Happy People Make Happier Couples
Marriage and a partner are not what you should plan on making you happy. There is a movie called “Jerry Maguire” where there is a line “you complete me,” which is kind of what some people want to hear. The scene certainly tugged at our heart strings but it's not practical for a successful relationship.
A lot may think they can't live without the other person, this is common in the beginning. But what makes a successful relationship is two people who've become emotionally grown up on their own and then meeting some one who is also emotionally grown up. This means you really will have something to offer instead of being a burden.
A normal stable relationship involves two emotionally stable people that like being with each other possibly together a lot but not due to the fact they are fearful of being by themselves. They are two complete individuals, not needing the other to create a whole person.
When you determine what it takes to create happiness for yourself without a partner then you'll stop attracting the wrong people. As you see what you need for satisfaction and live your life not someone elses you'll become the person you want to be. As this evolution takes place the partner who's right for you will become known and they will fall into place in your life.
You are a person all by yourself, you don't need someone else to fill you up. Discover what makes you complete by yourself and then that perfect partner will show up and become part of your life.
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